Dear Seeker of Success,
So far, we’ve looked at how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, the power of metaphors, and what’s going on in your mind – and hers.
Today, we get into the physiological and energetic aspects.
Often when guys are stuck, there’s a cognitive aspect, which is how they’re thinking about it, what meaning they’re attaching and what metaphors they’re using.
Then there’s the physiological aspect. What’s going on?
Remember, I said that a lot of this is about amping yourself up. You have 100,000 volts going down a 10,000-volt test line.
How Do You De-Amp Yourself? Simple.
You’re going to de-amp yourself using your feet.
What the hell do I mean by that?
When your body is going through an energetic overcharge, a good way to deal with it is to ground things down to
your feet.
I can give you a lot of reasons for this. I could tell you there are acupuncture pressure points on the bottom of the feet. I’m not one to begin to try to explain whether there’s any science behind this. Frankly, I don’t know, and I don’t care.
I just know empirically that if you act as if the model were true and just do as I tell you, you’ll get the result that I promise and predict.
Here’s How You Do It, Step-By-Step
First, you’re going to very slightly bend your knees and exhale. It’s a slight bend in your knees, not a deep bend as if you’re going to bend over. It’s just the very slightest bend in the knees, maybe about 2 inches.
As you bend your knees, you’re going to exhale. As you’re doing this, I want you to feel the feeling of your feet pressing against the ground.
If you’re wearing shoes, so much the better. You’ll feel the feeling of your feet pressing against your shoes, pressing down against the ground. You’re also going to feel the feeling of the ground pressing back up against your shoes and feet.
When you straighten up, you’re going to take a big inhale.
This Is About Dividing The Real Estate In Your Consciousness
When you’re interacting with super-hot women, put about 20% of your attention on the feeling of your feet against your shoes and the feeling of your shoes against the ground.
The bottom line is that if you can put 20% of your attention on the feeling of whatever’s pressing against your feet, and whatever your feet are pressing against, you will be so focused, in tune and de-amped that it’ll be like you’re talking to a disgusting, nasty woman.
Then you’ll do really well.
In Part 5, I’ll show you what NOT to do – and a visioning exercise.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. If you understand anything about women at all, you understand that it’s much easier to lead from the front than to push from behind. (In fact, this is true with all people, everywhere.)
We will unpack this for you – and get you on a better path – in London on July 30th and 31st.
