Dear Seeker of Success,
Do you use the Speed Seduction® language patterns, games, quizzes, and techniques?
Someone shared with me during this week’s “Call My Cell Phone” office hours, their reluctance to use the patterns.
They said, “I actually tried the patterns a couple of times and they really worked, but then I stopped doing them. They didn’t feel comfortable.”
Listen: I get it. For some guys there’s some initial discomfort in using the patterns.
Now let me set the intent of dissipating some of that.
Speed Seduction® Is The Right Thing To Do
For The Women You Truly Desire
The first thing you need to hear (and this applies to everything you do approaching, attracting, and seducing women): you’re not doing something wrong or evil.
This idea that you’re going to be caught or deceiving women with a hateful or bad purpose is not at all what you’re doing. You’re not picking their pockets or mugging them.
Here’s the point: Whether you feel sincere with it or not yet, it’s the kind of communication that they really enjoy.
Once Again, Pigeons Teach Us How To
Succeed With Women
Previously, I illustrated how the eating habits of pigeons provide insights into how to avoid crushes – and make women want us.
Now, let’s say you were feeding bread to pigeons and you didn’t particularly like that kind of bread. You hated that bread.
However, if you knew the pigeons loved it, you wouldn’t feel bad about tossing the bread to the pigeons.
Therefore
You’re Not Doing Anything Wrong
By Giving Women What They Want!
In the same vein, NOT using the language patterns insults the woman by denying her own power of choice and making assumptions about her views.
Speed Seducers elicit information from women, then use it in a Sargy way.
Assuming women don’t like the patterns, therefore, is not the Sargy way.
There’s more on this subject, which I’ll share in an upcoming post.
But for now, I want you to let that sink in, and truly understand it in a profound way.
Peace,
RJ
