Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In my last blog post, I explained the reasons why women put men through B.S. tests.
So, moving right ahead, today I will share some powerful techniques to not only “pass” these tests but rather, completely overcome them and turn things to your advantage.
So, let’s delve into…
How To Handle It….Dealing From A Position Of Strength
To get back to street fighting analogies, there’s a concept from Jeet Kun Do, the fighting style of the late, great Bruce Lee that basically says that any weapon thrust your way, as part of an attack is just a convenient target to be destroyed. Coming from this perspective, an attack, rather than something to be feared, is just an unprecedented opportunity to…. KICK THE OTHER GUY’S ASS!!!!
Just so, a woman’s bullshit and tests are great opportunities to establish respect and dramatically increase her interest in you. In other words, your response to these tests, instead of being, “Oh no.…why is she doing this? What did I do wrong?”, from now on will be….
AH, HAH! A RESPECT OPPORTUNITY!!!
Look: your attitude has to be that every rude piece of behavior, every silly test of hers is just an unprecedented opportunity for you to establish respect, increase her interest, and intensify her desire to please you.
Taken from this perspective, you’ll be mentally prepared, and may even find yourself actually looking forward to her trying to pull shit, since you know it’s your chance to get her really hot for you!!!!
Now let me add one other thing: when you do put her in her place…
IT’S GOT TO COME FROM THE RIGHT PLACE IN YOU!!!
In other words, the macho idiot who loses control and trashes the place when his girlfriend comes home ten minutes late is definitely not the example to follow. All he’s doing is showing he can’t control himself and he just earns the woman’s contempt.
Notice I’m not saying you can’t or shouldn’t get a little pissed. Just don’t go nutso with a stream of obscenities. (Streams of obscenities are for afterwards, when you are in bed with her.)
The other thing that doesn’t work is acting like a hurt little boy. Whining stuff like, “How could you do this to me?” or, “But you promised!” won’t cut it, good buddy. No. You have to come from the calm, but firm “take it or leave it” position. This is all part of displaying the critically important………
WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY FROM HER!!!
You see, after years of experience and study, I’ve come to the conclusion that a woman can only experience real passion for you if on some level she believes she could do something to lose you!
Understand that when you show this willingness to walk away, in any area of your life, it conveys the message that you are the prize to be pursued, that you are the person of value, and they had better take advantage of the opportunity.
This is an attitude that will move you forward in any area that’s challenging you.
By way of contrast, if you show a non-stop, forever and ever devotion to her, and put up with her crap and ambivalence, then where is that tension of knowing she could lose you? Answer: nowhere!
And that’s why you get nowhere when you put up with this kind of stuff! If you’ve seen an initially hot relationship grow ice-cold, this is one big reason!!!
Peace and piece,
RJ
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I think the reason a woman is attracted when you walk away is because of evolution. In the stone age every woman had the important task of creating and keeping the small tribe of about 20 people together. Which meant keeping the men under control. The women were helpless without them. Having sex with a man before he left on a hunting trip would make it more likely he would bring something back for her and the other members of the tribe. There was always the risk that he (or they) may take food to a woman of another local tribe, so any man who fell out of female sexual control was pursued, especially if he was a strong confident leader, fighter or hunter. I think it is all about seeing a man as a food source and maintaining control over that food source.
Please delete “creating and” from my previous post, it was an error.
Jeet Kune Do is not a fighting style!
Its a phylosophy that Bruce Lee had, its about adaptation you take what works for you from different fighting styles and use them your way. Its like what Bruce said about being like water..
I think that the same can apply to pickup, things that don’t work for you should be discarded and things that do should be intergrated.
As a specific example if trance words don’t work for you replace them with something else.
I got my answer, which means I thinks she likes me but when she says stuff like “We shouldn’t cross the boundary” after giving me so many indicators of interest, I look hard into her eyes and tell her that, “Look M, I like you very much and I know that even you do. If you didn’t you’d never say that everytime we meet “It clicks”. We’d never have 15 hours phone conversations if were just friends. So when you say lets be friends, its like going into a prison for me where I cant be myself. So make up your mind coz if I’m to stay I’m gonna love you like you’ve never been loved, and if not then just let me go”.
Come on dude, the reason why she has friendzoned you is just because you didn’t cross the boundries, had 15 hrs phone convos and paid way too much attention to her words. You should read Ross’ posts again and hopefully you get it. Where in the process did you show the strength she was looking for when testing you? Why didn’t you cross the boundaries when she subliminally asked you to? The words you were gonna tell her are the ones of a whimp, not a strong man, don’t you get it? Here’s how you do it: you “cross” the boundaries, whatever she meant by that, and express your fucking strength and take-it-or-leave-it attitude. Guys don’t have the balls to do that and fabric nice words to tell the girls instead. Grab your balls and go for it. The hotter the chick, the more balls you need, But the good news is, if you dare to be straightforward like this, you’ll earn a ton of respect and gain priceless self-confidence! Nowadays, I have not problem to put perfect 10s in their places, fuck the looks, she’s a chick like any other. The hotter they are the more shit tests you’ll get because they try to blind you by their sheer sex appeal. You need to learn how to cut through that BS, no matter who she is or how good she looks. Period. Good luck!
And thank you so very much, Ross!
Oldpuller, Very well stated. The evolutionary perspective explains SO much human behavior that otherwise seems like nonsense. For me the seduction value of that is just being able to except that that’s they way a lot of people operate, so work with it.