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    efi January 26, 2012, 11:58 am

    great stuff..
    reminded me to thank you for linking to shinzen young..

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    mark January 26, 2012, 12:21 pm

    Hay Ross, I don’t know if this the best place to ask. But I will throw it out there anyway. What kind if any challenges have you had with sarging
    women from different countries ? I am planning to visit a couple of different countries in South America, in the near future and I am just wandering if you might have any insight, about women from any of the countries from South America.
    Thanks for you advise.
    Mark G.

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    alistair January 26, 2012, 1:07 pm

    i was sitting in starbucks the other day and a guy yelled at me from the line that the paper and magazines were his, and so i said that he should have put his name on them and he lost his mind and yelled that he didn’t HAVE to put his name on it…as if he was superior in some way.

    before nlp i would have become incredibly anxious during the experience and probably tried to apologize and then avoid the coffee shop for fear of seeing the guy again, but now i merely ignored the guy as he came over to claim “his” materials and was able to speak calmly to the manager when she came over to ask what happened.

    i did my first stage hypnosis show this week-end and i noticed that when i spent time with my wife before the show i started to get nervous like i used to at the thought of public speaking, and i realised that she was nervous that i wouldn’t do well and possibly embarrass us (it was a charity event for her work).

    once i realised what was going on i could find my focus again by consciously reducing her energy field’s effect on me and re-imagining my show and the applause and laughter from the audience….and i hated like hell to turn my wife’s effect on me down even for a second because she continues to be the greatest woman a man could ever ask for, but i had to be totally on-form to be able to do what i did on saturday night, as you well know.

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    Mario January 26, 2012, 5:49 pm

    I just wanted to tell you how much SpeedSeduction had changed me
    i have like 80% success with women by now and it’s all because of you
    keep up the good work Ross

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    Oldpuller January 26, 2012, 11:45 pm

    Hi Ross,

    I am currently attending relaxation meditation classes where we all sit around a candle and the instructor guides us into relaxation. I quickly realised after my first session that my thoughts are my problems, more so than the reality of a situation. Is this the same thing as you speak about here?

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    zarathud January 27, 2012, 4:13 am

    Awesome re-frame at the end!

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    Simbat January 27, 2012, 3:55 pm

    Ross,

    I have been fallowing your teaching for a couple of years now and it has truly changed my life, specially after practicing meditation after hearing you mention it on the 3.0 SS.
    Also, I can’t help noticing that you have been working out 🙂

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    naan January 27, 2012, 11:41 pm

    I did not quite get it when you talked about extending the time of a bj. How is our consciousness leads to shorten or extend the time that a man can hold for before he comes?

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    A M January 28, 2012, 6:10 am

    Sarging with mindfulness and equanimity empowers the will to the point that it becomes a vehicle to reach enlightment?

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    Curious January 28, 2012, 7:57 pm

    This stuff looks interesting. Will it be incorporated into Speed Seduction 4.0? Any ETA on SS 4.0?

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    sam February 23, 2012, 8:17 pm

    Hi Ross,
    I think this video hit the point. I have problem with keeping my focus and that is the biggest challenge and i think with out getting it over nothing else will work.
    so can you help and guide me how to attain this focus so that if i buy any other program i can get benifit from it.
    Thanks

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    Ivo November 1, 2013, 4:21 am

    I am sure that most people don’t recognize the importance and value of RJ’s post. Another example of RJ sharing amazing stuff for free. I have been paying attention to body sensations (as opposed to mental chat) since maybe 1.5 years. Great results! I did great job on purifying my mind from supressed sufferings accumulated since childhood throughout the years. This made me more relaxed, more stable (in terms of how I respond to every day life (= spiritual life)) and more authetic. Years ago I tried positive programming but it was a huge struggle that I could not keep on. I got some good results but they were more on the surface. For example think of a chick who you can sense that she is convincing herself she is a HB (on mental level). (If you are not sure what I mean you need to medidate:D). Then think of a chick who just emanates Hot Babeness on the level of “being”. The former example refers to “on the surface”. I will now do my 333 meditation as instructed by RJ. It is still difficult for me to focus, I lose my focus very easily. I feel like being in the gym and benchpressing 30 kg 🙂 Nevermind, keeping On!

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    z23 November 1, 2013, 5:03 am

    Also gets me thinking that emotions aren’t information about “out there”…What I’ve been working on more is just holding a “state”. Probably can’t really capture it here, but previous post I heard in members only area you mentioned being too tired to sarge and just getting a massage. The idea that it is work, somehow makes it seem like less work to me – not having to put on an artificial “happy face” which probably caused problems anyway…so how does that relate to “grasping”? It’s probably more of a pathology thing, but it seems like just holding a new understanding or feeling is also a skill. I can watch stuff that makes sense in the moment and visualize using it, but to actually hold the feeling and cognition into the real experience is something that I continue to practice.

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