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    DANNY October 24, 2010, 4:17 pm

    … How did you meet? … A great line Ross. Asking a question, of two or more persons, is almost always a pleaser. In this case you will find out if he is the B-friend. If he is, don’t try to make friends with him. It makes it much more difficult for her to open up to you, when, she thinks that, what she says to you, might get back to the B-friend. Also because B-friends are usually more confident, getting her alone, with you, is usually more easily done. And because B-friends are more dismissive of her, she will open up and complain about him when you do get her alone. If the guy is just a date, get just close enough to him so that you don’t get punched in the face. Then do your thing with her, right in front of him. If he feels threatened, he will show it, she will notice, he will appear less attractive, and this makes your job just that much easier.
    So … I chat with this girl and her date at a party. Later she is cooking meat on the grill. I go up to her and engage. Her date rushes over. As he comes up to her, I stand in his way, look him straight in the eye, and say “hey buddy, you better watch yourself …You better be careful.” Then, keeping my eyes fixed on him, I reach back toward her; put my hand right in, and up against, her face and say to him “Be careful what she gives you to eat. I don’t think this girl has cooked more than two or three REAL meals in her life”. Of course, by the time I get to “… in her life”, I am laughing out loud as I speak. He is relieved and she can see that I am unafraid of either of them. This meeting had a happy ending. Turns out that her and her date were just right for each other and on the edge of getting together. My little act showed the guy how to be more attractive. He started to make fun of her too. I backed off, they got together and both are now good friends of mine. In fact, I am currently having it off with his last girlfriend. I am thinking maybe a threesome. Foursome?

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    john evans October 24, 2010, 5:24 pm

    This suggestion must have been around a while, because I have guys come up and ask me that at least twice a week here in Vegas. I always answer, “We’re Fuck Buddies!” And amazingly, the guys walk away when I say this.

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    Thomas Harris October 26, 2010, 7:24 am

    Thanks Ross

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    Tom October 27, 2010, 10:42 am

    Before some months I was in a situation where a girl was surrounded by friends, both male and female. I approached her and asked her an honest question about her (if someone ever has told her that she looked like Jennifer Aniston). The guy next to her acted a little bit rude when I introduced myself to him however I used the situation to my benefit and asked her “Is your boyfriend always this impolite?”. It soon went out that he wasn’t her bf and so I had a very nice night with a very nice, hot Jennifer Aniston looking girl I picked up.
    But yes – usually it is better to speak to the other friends first.

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