Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
From time to time, I will hear from a Speed Seduction® student who is in a slump. He’s had a lot of success with women, and usually has no problem overcoming his fears, confidently approaching women, and using my teachings to get them dripping wet with desire.
But, sometimes guys get down in the dumps and into a slump. Hell, Babe Ruth, The “Sultan of Swat,” got into a slump now and then.
This doesn’t mean you’ve somehow regressed into an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC).
You’re just in a slump. The solution might not be as simple as “just step back up to the plate and take another swing” – but it also might not be as complex as you think.
Stay with me while we explore…
Leading Causes Of Seduction Slumps
Slumps could be due to many different factors:
- Your physiology is worn out or tired. If the body isn’t getting what it needs, the mind is going to go, and your abilities along with it. Have you noticed changes in your eating/work/sleep/exercise pattern?
- Presence of sudden environmental stress. When I lose people close to me, my sarging ability can go strongly into the toilet for 6 weeks or more.
- Presence of a nasty, “suppressive person”. If there is suddenly someone in your environment who is hateful and suppressive, it could be effecting your overall emotional/mental state in a negative, anti-sargy way.
- Unconscious internal conflict. Maybe you unconsciously think being with lots of women is nasty or bad, or doesn’t fit “who you are”. Or your values are shifting and you want more emotional closeness or support.
- Sloppy seduction fundamentals. You are not practicing with discipline; leaving things out or doing the wrong things or too much or too little. Review your actions with women and see what you come up with.
Do any of the above apply to you?
Are you finding that you just can’t seem to motivate yourself? Wondering why you can’t get off your Seduction ass and get out there and Sarge?
The answers to those questions need to come from within you. And any of the causes I mentioned above can be impacted by the state of your inner game.
If your “inner game” is not hitting it out of the ballpark, your “outer game” – the one that women see when you Sarge, or even when you go through your daily life – will strike out too. It’s a good place to start.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. No matter how much of a slump you’re in right now – what you’ve been through, experienced or encountered – you CAN turn around even the toughest situations, turn confusion to clarity, and losing to learning.
To help you, I have put together everything you need to get out of the dumps and Nail Your Inner Game. Get yours now:
to dong ro mau………..
For me I think it’s a bit of number 4. And while I’m at work it can be number 1 when I’d think I’d rather sleep than do anything. On occasion at work there will be some of #2 and #3.
@Harsh
See the segments in the New Code on the power of metaphor.
Thanks Paul. 🙂 So glad to see your response. Will definitely do.