Dear Seeker of Success,
Life gets in the way sometimes.
How often do you meet a hottie, but there isn’t enough time to do a full Sarge before one of you has to go?
Maybe you’re Sarging in an airport and her flight is about to board, six minutes after you met her at the passenger lounge.
Or perhaps you’re on your lunch break and you have to get back to work – staying employed IS important, after all.
Any of the above sound familiar?
The good news is: not all is lost.
Get Her Eager For The Next Episode By Saying
“To Be Continued” The Right Way
Let’s say you’re in the situation where you’re enjoying talking to each other, but you don’t have any more time and you have to go.
You can say, “Look, I know we haven’t had that much time to talk. You obviously have to get going, and I’m very busy, too. I’ve got to get going.”
Or “I know we haven’t had that much time to talk. I’ve got to get going. You’ve got to get going. What steps can we take to make sure we get to talk again?”
Simple enough?
Now, Let’s Add A “Stealth” Boyfriend Destroyer
(Just In Case She Happens To Be “Taken”)
“Look, if you’re not with someone who’s with you in the way you truly want them to be, maybe we owe it to each other to hang out a little bit.” (When I do this, I’ll be that strong about it.)
Or “I don’t know what your social situation is, but if you’re not with someone who’s ringing all your bells, maybe you owe it to yourself to spend a little time with me and see what you might be missing.” (Even stronger.)
Yep, now she’s got that “ideal boyfriend” checklist out….and she’s using it to see how HE measures up.
Pacing And Suggestion:
A Sargy “Time Bomb”
“I don’t know what your social situation is.”
That’s a pacing statement, because it’s true.
If I say to a woman I’ve only spoken with for 20 or 30 minutes, “I don’t know what your social situation is,” am I telling the truth? Yes.
Now, hear the suggestion “…you might be missing” inside the phrase “Maybe you owe it to yourself to spend a little time with me and see what you might be missing.”
Hear that time bomb ticking on her real-hate-shun-ship with her boyfriend?
Stand by, for her mounting your baloney pony.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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“Baloney pony” – I like the sound of it. Ross you are a wordsmith.
Thank you!