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    David P. Bellamy January 11, 2014, 10:08 am

    His answer would be “No, what would be the point if she could not understand what I was saying.”

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    Joshua January 11, 2014, 10:12 am

    His answer was no, he wouldn’t feel as anxious. How could he be anxious anything he would say would fall on ears that couldn’t understand. What the most he could lose?

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      Ross Jeffries January 12, 2014, 1:40 pm

      @Joshua

      Correct; he’s no longer focused on having to get her to accept or like him. The pressure is off and in fact, he is no longer thinking of “losing” OR “winning”!

      RJ

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    David January 11, 2014, 10:37 am

    “i dont think i would have any anxiety at all, in fact i wouldnt even go up and say anything”.
    i answered the question for myself.

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    Thomas January 11, 2014, 11:17 am

    Great point RJ.
    Guys, All She “Knows” About You Is What You Choose To Present To Her.
    Other Than That, You’re Just Another Generic Human Male Who’s Stepped Into Her Field of Vision and is Engaging Her in Conversation. If You Reframe “Anxiety” as EXCITEMENT (Which is Exactly What it is) Then Poof! . . . Everything You Label as “Anxiety” Disappears.

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      Ross Jeffries January 12, 2014, 1:39 pm

      @Thomas You win the prize. Exactly correct.

      RJ

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    Maged January 11, 2014, 11:18 am

    not much anxiety.. because not only words can express the feelings…its the smile.. the eyes.. the body language that can say more than words.. even if the language is not known….

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    Robert2 January 11, 2014, 12:48 pm

    he would have answered that he does not have anxiety anymore,

    he would have answered that way because his brain would have switched of the anxiety story and started thinking that is possible.

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    Damir January 11, 2014, 3:57 pm

    Well of course not,she doesn”t speak his language so as long as he seems confident and with write body language he will get the girl

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    Paul C January 11, 2014, 10:23 pm

    She would be looking at how you express yourself in the way you look and sound, not so much the actual words you use, it would give you a sense of freedom to say just about anything.

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    A M January 12, 2014, 1:34 pm

    He said no because you created anticipation, preframed his reaction, describe the situation with time distortion and he was investing and compliant.

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    A M January 12, 2014, 3:40 pm

    Sarging book, 20 minutes ago:

    Me “There is a question…. This question is going to totally change how you think, feel and live from now. Are you ready?”

    HB: Yes.

    Me: “What if we made sex and only you and me will know it, noone else can discover it?
    We had amazing sex and all the time we did it you felt great it’s just between me and you, a secret?
    Can you imagine how would it be?

    HB: you have fever?

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    z23 January 13, 2014, 2:16 am

    Do I smell a Perfect Strangers approach coming on? Sorry, I’m still bitter about my love being stolen, but I am finding that many women will do small things to aid the healing when I start from a place of not thinking I’m God’s gift.

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