Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Yesterday we visited the first of two sad scenarios that caused a student of mine to cock-block himself from his 96-year supply of women.
The first one was disheartening – the chick went absolutely fucking psycho on him.
Fair enough.
Now, let’s look at how less dramatic circumstances can take their toll – and a new way of looking at things that gets you Sarging strong again.
As my student was saying:
I was at a strip mall. I went up to these girls. I almost felt like I was being too cocky and in their face.
The line that I threw at them was, “You’re beautiful, and I’m going to get to know you.” They just laughed at me, turned around and walked away.
RJ here.
First of all, laughing isn’t yelling at you, is it?
Second, you used a stupid line. “I think you’re beautiful. I’m going to get to know you.”
Huh?
F*** you. That’s arrogant.
Let me instead show you
A Smarter Way To Get Her ROFL…
And Rolling Between Your Sheets!
Say something to make her laugh.
When she laughs, say, “I’m glad you laughed because when I noticed you here I thought, ‘See if she has a sense of humor before you introduce yourself.'”
Notice an ever-so-slight difference?
That Aside, Why Did You Let Her
Laughter Slam Your Sarge?
She was laughing at you. So what? Women laugh at guys all the time. Big f***king deal.
That said, I can see how that can make someone gun-shy on their next approach. I get it. Now, let’s change the paradigm.
Look: a pro is going to step into the ring, get hit a few times, and just shake it off. An amateur is going to fall down and run away.
You’re going to get situations that you can’t control, but if you want the skill, you have to put up with a few shots.
More “inner game” mastery can be found inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
Peace and piece,
RJ
Honestly, a woman laughing at me, not reacting to my advances or getting angry is actually a good thing. She has let me know up front not to waste my time. A bandler once said, she will go onto make some other poor sap miserable the rest of his life.
The things that are more grating have to do with when you use this technology, you cast a wider net, and woman will forget (or not tell) about there husbands or boyfriends which can lead to drama you don’t want. Or, you can reawaken all these feelings, she shows interest, but for whatever reasons, her mother or her friends warn her about “some stranger you met at Hole Foods” and they go back to societal programmed mediocrity. You will see them later on with a guy who has a good job, social position etc who she met thru friends, or a hard drinking bad boy from a social circle who excites her in one way, but is reckless and very self centered.
You have done offered her gold coins and she has put them in a gumball machine.
As I’ve been saying for years, no matter what you are looking for, Speed Seduction gets you there faster.
If you’re looking for a girlfriend or wife, the technology and skills cuts through the bullshit faster and gets you closer to The One by moving you past those who aren’t going to go for it.
I never promised success with EVERY woman. I promise more success with your women, who YOU TRULY WANT TO BE WITH.
Heed that and you’ll do well.