Dear Seeker of Success,
Hitting a “grand slam” requires skill, strength, and focus.
Create the vision that your bat will connect to the ball with powerful force and send it flying right out of the park, and channel your skills to get your results and claim your future.
Sounds simple enough?
Well, sometimes smart guys like you step up to bat, but then can’t seem to harness the positive energy to make the approach and close the deal.
When this happens, you strike out.
But are you striking YOURSELF out?
Let’s see…
Hey Ross, I purchased my first Speed Seduction® course a while ago but I’ve just starting applying it within the past few weeks. A group of us get together at a local shopping center to go Sarging. I have made about 25 approaches – small fry approaches really like commenting on the environment, asking the time, or asking for directions.
For the last week though, it seems as though the quantity and quality of my approaches has dropped. For example the first two weeks I could at least manage to have a pleasant, if short, conversation with a hot babe, but now all I can work myself up to do is the most unambitious and dull approaches (such as asking the time.) My quantity of approaches has also dropped from 5 or 6 in the first few weeks to just 2 last week.
It feels as if I’m regressing. I regularly practice breathing meditation. The only thing that I can think of is that I have fallen into the trap of comfort with my fellow wingmen. Because I am comfortable and at ease with them I no longer feel the same pressure to prove to them that I am putting in the effort. Consequently I seem to be feeling and acting like I did when I tried to Sarge alone (and failed).
What can I do?
First of all, why did you wait so long to get started?
As I’ve said before, every day that goes by is 1,440 lost minutes that you will never get back.
There are no “do-overs” pal – but there is the chance to “do NOW.” What’s stopped you until now?
In Speed Seduction®, I teach students the techniques for using the information, feedback, and “vibe” that women put out as a means of reaching them on their level and opening them up and blazing the path toward Seduction success.
Just like men react to the vibe women give off – if she’s warm and open we’re likely to proceed, if she’s cold and closed we’re more likely to “Exit, Stage Left”…
…Women React To Men In The Same Way.
So I ask you, what “vibe” are you putting out there?
What does it say about who you are, and what you give to the world?
Is it the kind of vibe that shows a woman that you are open, attractive, appealing, and open to new explorations?
Or does it say “I’m not really sure I should be talking to you, and besides, I don’t know what to say?”
If you ask me, there’s something inside that’s holding you back.
In order to explore the virgin (or not-so-virgin) territory of those stunning sexy women at the shopping centre, find out what’s stopping you from launching the expedition.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. What results could you claim with no need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walked like a giant where other people fear to step?
And what if you could get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a@%, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted?
My Nail Your Inner Game System is the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.
Claim yours now, and blast through the barriers that have held you back… until now!
Great advice, I think it's pretty important to continually push yourself out of your comfort zone it you want to see great results. Your idea about “vibe” is great, and it seems logical that the OP should work on his inner game.
“Asking the time” was never the line. It was around 2003 when a waitress I’d been eying answered by looking at that newfangled mobile on her apron and I instantaneously realized that a lesson I thought I’d learned at 14 had just changed due to technology because my Honest Abe reply was, “Oh yeah, I guess I have a clock on mine too.”
It only hurt worse when just a few years later those same girls were giggling at me for having learned that lesson.
Tactics change over time, but the underlying principles generally remain constant.
In the Hyper-Responsive course we discuss a lot about what to say on a woman’s answering machine. Here in 2016, not only do women not have answering machines, but they usually don’t even check their voicemail.
Which proves the point: “scoring the digits” is NOT scoring. That has NOT changed.
It would seem silly that people with low skillset when it comes to women would band together.
Shouldnt you hang with someone who has better skills and tbe lifestyle you want?
Plus going places just for the purposes to meet chicks … is artificiall isnt it? Shouldnt you sarge while you move tgrough your world?
In my opinion SS is about seizing the openings you have been denying yourself in your day to day life.
Talk to girls ugly or preety in your day to day 0
life. You practice … and loosen up … so when a you like a girl you can move things along with less anxiousness.
Yes.
To your second point: if you’re the smartest person in the room, then get a new room; otherwise you’ll never grow. So, correct.