How To Stop Getting Suckered By Cock-Teases

Dear Seeker of Success,

During a “dry spell” or after you’ve been in a marriage or long term relationship that comes to an end, it’s easier than ever to get suckered by a cock-tease.

You find yourself randomly sarging, mostly opportunity sarging, which means, sarging when you happen to get “lucky” enough to have a Sargeable woman enter your presence and (seemingly) beg to be Sarged.

She’ll often show up in the form of a chick who says “babe” and “sweetie” a lot and gives you goo-goo eyes 10 seconds after you meet her, while you answer that zinger of a question, “hey, what’s up?”

It’s been so long, you’re thinking this is for real.

Now, try to escalate with her and watch how fast she’s suddenly late for an appointment and has to go, like, right now, as she’ll breathlessly explain while she almost runs in the other direction before you can get a Sargy word in edgewise – an “escape” she’s had a lot of practice with.

In other words, a cock-tease.

That momentary high of “wow, I think this chick digs me!” quickly turns into you feeling even more down, listless, and random than before you met her.

How To Stop Getting Suckered By Cock-Teases And
Get Back Into Your Focused Girl-Getting Game

Here is my perspective:

As a general rule, when you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into anything – a person, a relationship, a project-and it doesn’t come to fruition as you wish, then all of that energy etc has nowhere to go.

I think a ritual whereby you reclaim all of what you gave and put out is now taken back, cleansed and set free from any and all connection to that person, and now returned to you as distilled, cleansed, transformed, pure energy for……

…….your motivation, your peace of mind, your practice of your skills, your re-claiming of all the greatest joys and pleasures and talents of your life, would be very, very useful.

You might also want to do a meditation where you untangle all the various threads that are creating the lumped up experience of being stuck…

In other words, divide and conquer as my teacher, Shinzen Young says:

1. Experience any physical sensations of fatigue;
2. With the emotions you may be feeling: anger, regret, sadness, emotional, tired – separate them out and experience each one, one at a time, with clarity and equanimity.

I’d actually do the meditation first. That will already strongly move the reclaiming along.

Then and ONLY then, once you’ve done all of this, sit down or go for a long walk or a trip somewhere you’ve never been before with lots of natural beauty.

Bring a journal and NOW, cleansed from all of the old stuff, with the energy and enthusiasm reclaimed, write down all the lessons you’ve learned, and from that perspective, what were the first warning flags? The patterns of blindsight or assumptions that led you to the responses and actions you took.

And then offer gratitude for the whole thing and move on.

Try it.

Peace,

RJ

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