Dear Seeker of Success,
Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher.
As I like to say, and as I believe you’ve heard me say repeatedly (usually with a comment about Tamara’s teddy, Hannah’s halter-top, or Becky’s brassiere),
The Women Are Waiting, Now…
What Are You Waiting FOR???
I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now.
He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.
But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though.
She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc.
He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.
He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.
Let’s dissect this.
Uh…First Of All, What Part Of
The “Speed” In “Speed Seduction®”
Did He Not Understand???
The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is.
This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.
Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.
Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.
I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:
- ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
- I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
- When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.
So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR?
An engraved invitation?
I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”
Peace,
RJ
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A huge obstacle for a lot of guys is hesitation, and it goes hand in hand with indecision. Instead of taking action and going for it – whatever that may be in a given situation (asking for a number, asking her on a date, taking her back to your place) – they overthink the whole thing way too much and end up doing nothing. This just leads to many missed opportunities.
If i practiced your speed seduction i think i would of had this very attractive woman fall in love with me we would of both lived happily ever after but i messed it takes hard work to do speed seduction
Hi there,
i have had this on & of, but NOW in good 3 days i am going to move my computer to the storage room, which is outside of my appartment. the first quarter of a year i am not even thinking of reducing my time i can potentially stand (!) with that thing. but over decades it has not really done me that well.
i had just read an interview from you & i want to wish you very well. may the healing continue bigtime 2020. and i do thank you for some subtle learnings that i glad to be a part of. a friendly greeting from prague, christian
ps: i purchased your book.